Knowledge of FW owning a kajirus

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[Sayrax wiefel]

hmm suggestions...find a gor group, make up a notecard about all that you are, know about and behavior to expect. Plop it into a gorean notice and see what bites. Am not going to argue the btb/ge nature but your happiness in finding another is probably more important to yourself and the future Owner then any actual basis on the books.

If you want to go the long route, find yourself a city kennels you fit into with, don't fall for the its not very slave like to dedicate which city you will serve.  This is about your long term happiness as a person and ooc role that am getting you seem to want.  Get trained some and somewhat safe exposure to other Females in a city, if your looking for a slightly more sexualized role with less of the strictness of role, find a GE panther tribe or the shingami or siba outlaws plenty of females their looking for a male slave thats good in their role and dedication.

Will you go through a few before you settle in a permant collar, ....Yes most likily. Think of city collars like dating and that personal collar as your marriage.  If you go into deeper collars without the city exposure first, setup a 2 or 3 week try out period, that either party may absolve from with no hurt feelings.


JUST BECAREFUL.....their are alot of females that are just standing slaves. You need to understand the possiblites, I have had 3 collars before where the female submitted to their FC and i was left in the cold. You need a hard shell to weather the unknown and the bad stuff that will happen.

[Liliana Aluveaux]

Ultimately all that really matters if you are happy. Every person in the gor world has their own view of the 'perfect' gorean man, woman, etc... Whatever works for you is your business. Don't let someone make you feel bad about your choice.

[Poisonous Adored]

Mmmh Zeb, first, in Gor, slaves are required to talk to the 3rd person only in punishment or when they beg for a favor.

Else, agree with Conall, you are one of these kajirus who confuse Gor and BDSM. Your submission doesnt sound Gorean.... I think that maybe would you be better to go to play in BDSM sims where you will find an environment which would fit better with your character. In Gor, you will get IC issues each time you will meet someone like Conall.

And please, this forum is not a RP forum, just a forum when we have discussions about role play, Gor... So, could you enable the OOC mode, please? We are all equal, here....

[Dina Vaniva]

I would like to add a bit to the topic as being the one starting it way back

My thoughts were, to try a new challenge. I have played a fw and a kajira and a bond so many many times - having raised families. Taken an education as a physician, advanced as such and well....i had a feeling i had done all i in my fantacy could do - but owning a kajirus. And my knowledge was very weak, as most my time has been in the north where they are more of less not excisting (or just working as pr. the books).

So i went in to this new challenge, seeking knowlede, talk with men, subs, talking with other fw owning kajirii and so on before to seeking one of my own.

It was very, very difficult. Many were rl subs, hoping for a rl Mistress they could send pictures to, show themself in nadu on webcam for, get daily tasks to do for, or wear a real life collar - no thank you.

Others were the kinks - i thought i was kinky but  no that much it seemed. I will not go into details, but many liked a sweaty woman, dirty feet, dirty ....... and for her to .....in their mouth and such - no thank you.

What i seeked was a roleplayer - a Jason, a challenge - could i dominate a warrior? how would he feel and how would i feel, how much would we laugh in IM and would he in the end throw me on my knees and collar me - not that, that was the plan. But i love roleplay where you dont know the outcome, but just follow what happens.

I met two really great guys, amazing emoters, good looking avis...just rawrrr. But they were not much online and i assume it was men playing FM on a main avi, using the kajirus to have a bit fun on.

Just for the record. I would never have minded a man being submissive in rl, as long as it was kept on a reasonable level of course. Like i think most relationships with FM/slaves are - where she is a rl submissive too - but it doesnt mean she is wearing his collar in rl.

Well..basically people can do as they want its not up to me to judge - as long as they are happy and its within the fram of what we rp

So...this was my adventure ending like this. I am now back in my hiatus just following the forums, feeling a bit empty for stories still.
Maybe i will join one of your wonderful sims on a later time, when the stories starts to grow in my head agan.

Thanks for a grate debate btw

[Adoveea Rau]

Adooveea,

Your words are truly well spoken. And, while I do not want to go off topic, what you said about male slaves, could be said about a lot of other roles. All in all, well said, I would love to one day sit down and have a chat about how you see things. Always love a new opinion, view point about this world we travel through.

Dru

Certainly Druhsus, make out your will, bring your weapons, and be prepared for a great long wild discussion. We'll either agree or disagree, shout and shake our fists at each other, make everyone dive for cover and that's the fun of discussions.  And then grin and tell each other it was a great talk.

Contrary to rumors, it's not really necessary to have a slave with you to taste your drink...

[Stix Thorne]

I would like to add a bit to the topic as being the one starting it way back

My thoughts were, to try a new challenge. I have played a fw and a kajira and a bond so many many times - having raised families. Taken an education as a physician, advanced as such and well....i had a feeling i had done all i in my fantacy could do - but owning a kajirus. And my knowledge was very weak, as most my time has been in the north where they are more of less not excisting (or just working as pr. the books).

So i went in to this new challenge, seeking knowlede, talk with men, subs, talking with other fw owning kajirii and so on before to seeking one of my own.

It was very, very difficult. Many were rl subs, hoping for a rl Mistress they could send pictures to, show themself in nadu on webcam for, get daily tasks to do for, or wear a real life collar - no thank you.

Others were the kinks - i thought i was kinky but  no that much it seemed. I will not go into details, but many liked a sweaty woman, dirty feet, dirty ....... and for her to .....in their mouth and such - no thank you.

What i seeked was a roleplayer - a Jason, a challenge - could i dominate a warrior? how would he feel and how would i feel, how much would we laugh in IM and would he in the end throw me on my knees and collar me - not that, that was the plan. But i love roleplay where you dont know the outcome, but just follow what happens.

I met two really great guys, amazing emoters, good looking avis...just rawrrr. But they were not much online and i assume it was men playing FM on a main avi, using the kajirus to have a bit fun on.

Just for the record. I would never have minded a man being submissive in rl, as long as it was kept on a reasonable level of course. Like i think most relationships with FM/slaves are - where she is a rl submissive too - but it doesnt mean she is wearing his collar in rl.

Well..basically people can do as they want its not up to me to judge - as long as they are happy and its within the fram of what we rp

So...this was my adventure ending like this. I am now back in my hiatus just following the forums, feeling a bit empty for stories still.
Maybe i will join one of your wonderful sims on a later time, when the stories starts to grow in my head agan.

Thanks for a grate debate btw

aww
  I loved this thread to be honest .  One day I hope to run into a woman that truly tries to dominate me heh would make for some interesting rp to say the least not that im the submissive type in the least but the rp would probly be epic .

[Dina Vaniva]

Stix...just say when

[Stix Thorne]

Stix...just say when

o.O

when

[Druhsus]

Adooveea,

Your words are truly well spoken. And, while I do not want to go off topic, what you said about male slaves, could be said about a lot of other roles. All in all, well said, I would love to one day sit down and have a chat about how you see things. Always love a new opinion, view point about this world we travel through.

Dru

Certainly Druhsus, make out your will, bring your weapons, and be prepared for a great long wild discussion. We'll either agree or disagree, shout and shake our fists at each other, make everyone dive for cover and that's the fun of discussions.  And then grin and tell each other it was a great talk.

Contrary to rumors, it's not really necessary to have a slave with you to taste your drink...

If my life on Gor SL was to end now I will say that I appreciate it cause I had the chance to talk to you! Your work is excellent, your wisdom even more and the people around you are all a plus for the Gor community!

Dru

[Adoveea Rau]

Druhsus to forgot to mention I put him on tarn and he immediately managed to get himself killed flying it. (and at the tarn house, death for trainees flying a tarn is a common occurrence, and even more for the experienced tarnsman flying testing tarns).
Then on another tarn he flew, I was the passenger and we both ended up in the infirmary.
Xaz then gifted him with an Ubar sky tarn..

Some people have serious death wishes.

[Druhsus]

~smirks~ If the flight got me to stay in a room with a Free Woman for a while dad would be proud, so, so proud ~smirks~

Dru