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Author Topic: A bit broken in both worlds.....  (Read 2230 times)
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Randall Reich
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« 11. April 2011, 22:17:22 »
Now for my perspective as a slaver and someone doing the Gor slaver thing for more years than I care to admit:

A Gorean slave is *never* insulted, ridiculed, beaten-down emotionally under 99.999% of her life. If she screws-up, sure she might be disciplined or worse: punished or worse: destroyed. But a slave is useless if she is damaged in any way, including emotionally.

Here is a theme you will see from me time and again because I cannot say it enough: there is a massive difference between domination and domineering.

This too sets off something in my core.  I think it is a common misconception that in order to be dominant one must be a physically abusive jackhole who beats his slave unconscious for the slightest perceived transgression.  I look at men and women who act this way with utter disdain. 

There are two ways to keep a woman in your collar I have found.  One is the former, with the whip.  The other is with the heart.  When a girl leaps up to serve you, when she tries her hardest, when a mere look from you can make her quiver, when you don't have to lift a finger nor abuse her to know she is doing your bidding then you know you have the latter.  It is like winning a war without a single arrow being shot.  It is the true meaning of dominance.  The former is nothing more than a mixture of fear and abuse, and only results in slaves coming to a bad place like Persis described in her OP. 
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« 11. April 2011, 22:45:17 »
- maybe i will be a bit of a cookie cutter for a while, but lets see Smiley
Thank you all!!
and....lets play Smiley
It is a punishable offense to deny the slaver Erik a reason to thwap you on top of the head! Ask Elle!

LOL

I don't know your in-world name, but if you see me coming, look real busy, real quick. I am always in need of tarn cot girls to shovel tarn shit.  Smiley
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« 12. April 2011, 06:57:03 »
- maybe i will be a bit of a cookie cutter for a while, but lets see Smiley
Thank you all!!
and....lets play Smiley
It is a punishable offense to deny the slaver Erik a reason to thwap you on top of the head! Ask Elle!

LOL

I don't know your in-world name, but if you see me coming, look real busy, real quick. I am always in need of tarn cot girls to shovel tarn shit.  Smiley

Or "service" the keeper *laughs*

Welcome back Persis *hugs*
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« 12. April 2011, 10:36:34 »
- maybe i will be a bit of a cookie cutter for a while, but lets see Smiley
Thank you all!!
and....lets play Smiley
It is a punishable offense to deny the slaver Erik a reason to thwap you on top of the head! Ask Elle!

LOL

I don't know your in-world name, but if you see me coming, look real busy, real quick. I am always in need of tarn cot girls to shovel tarn shit.  Smiley

Laughs - its a promise!! - I am looking very much forward to meeting you, though i think our timezones are very oppisite, since i havent crossed path wilt you yet.

And thanks Payton Kiss hugs to you as well!
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Persis Ishtari: Within the reach of a man sword, he is an Ubar...Within the reach of a mans sword, a woman is a slave.
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« 12. April 2011, 11:16:33 »
Hey my Tarn poops a lot (too much roughage i think)
get your shovel girl !! Wink
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